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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of ALT.COM alternative lifestyle BDSM Kinky.
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BlueDuece 72 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Silver, Gold, VIP......This a joke??? - 7/19/2017

Why is it ALT gives away memberships to the females that get a lot of attention, but ignore, males who also get a lot of attention??? ALT....ask yourself why you discriminate against men....bad behavior !!! Puts ALT in the IGGY bin !!!

8 response(s), 47 votes
daisymaytv 112 T
5 questions
Score 0.0
Alt troubles again - 7/14/2017

Good morning/afternoon

Is anybody having problems with Alt and pictures on peoples profiles. Whats happening with me is when I look at peoples pictures on their profiles I cannot see comments left, I cannot leave a comment, I cannot Like the picture if I want to. All I get is like a spinning clock and the fore mentioned items or options do not load. I have tried on various devices and ...

15 response(s), 28 votes
mistressathena11 33 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How long? - 7/11/2017

how long till my photos verified by the moderators?

12 response(s), 45 votes
cpl4fun12401 63 C
4 questions
Score 0.0
WTF - 7/10/2017

What is it with guys listing them selves as straight, but are looking for sex with either a women or man. Can't be straight and have sex with the same gender. ( just saying )

12 response(s), 27 votes
Miomi2010Niasou 31 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How do you open up? - 7/6/2017

Even though I myself am on this site as well as others I still someone who is quite timid and shy. I have difficulties online sometimes just talking or talking to others. Let alone the times I have attempted to go to munches/sloshes and it was all I could do to try and be social.

Going throughout this community and everyday life how do you enable yourself to talk aloud about yourself? ...

10 response(s), 25 votes
sublime2superior 44 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Top Fan - 7/5/2017

is there a way to delete a top fan points you have given ?

9 response(s), 10 votes
tinman143 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
The right Mistress - 7/4/2017

Do you find it possible to have Domme/Mistress... Sub/Slave relationship long distance? If so how has it worked out...satisfying or missing something?

5 response(s), 13 votes
rott4444milfsss 44 M
1 question
Score 0.0
what is the best way to get a mature woman - 7/1/2017

trying to hook up with older woman if anyone know anyone that is looking for friend let me know i am interested

4 response(s), 15 votes
sirbob2017 68 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Now what - 6/26/2017

So ALT is at it again, the page format is off Why is it we can't go 3 months without an issue

14 response(s), 14 votes
sublime2superior 44 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
saw Gorean Free library - 6/22/2017

and mistakenly believing i might find a post that debunked the gorean "lifestyle " was i surprised when i followed the link

7 response(s), 16 votes
one_for_you 70 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Real or not? - 6/14/2017

OK....I am a "Standard" member. So what do you make of a "Gold" member who visits your profile at least one (sometimes more) an evening (I only have it online in the evenings), and never leaves a message. They live not that far away. Are they real or just Alt being silly?

12 response(s), 24 votes
seven7seven 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Women - 6/5/2017

Some women really wish they could dominate there partner and they don't know !!!!!!?????

8 response(s), 20 votes
ColneaJoans 67 F
13 questions
Score 0.0
The Best Question. - 6/2/2017

What is the best question you have ever seen in this section? (Advice Lines/ Magazine)

Please do not say it's this one. Thank You.

14 response(s), 32 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
how - 5/17/2017

Now that non-paying members can't do anything, is it futile to try to contact them?? Is there a way to browse only paying members?? As always, thanks for your help.

7 response(s), 24 votes
rik2066 57 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Customer serveses and technical - 5/14/2017

How quick are these in getting problems solved? My IM is still not working right it only shows a couple within my area of 50 mile which is not right and only 60 or so online altogether which is never right. Anyone else had such a problem?

12 response(s), 34 votes
sirbob2017 68 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
What's going on now? - 5/13/2017

Okay now what is going on, when I go to IM there are less than 20 people on where as last week it had over 200 plus. Now I am a nonpaying member, is it just effecting us?

21 response(s), 32 votes
luv2ridetongue 51 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Music - 5/9/2017

What is your favorite sexy music to listen to while playing? If you have a link it would be much appreciated. Thank you!

25 response(s), 27 votes
rik2066 57 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Local - 5/1/2017



Hi Are they any actual subs, sluts in the south yorkshire area that are genuine and meet ???

8 response(s), 22 votes
juicyslut2001 66 F
6 questions
Score 0.0
Friday night IM - 4/28/2017

Anyone else having challenges with Alt IM tonight?





13 response(s), 27 votes
Quennsjulog 34 F
1 question
Score 0.0
who want to meet? - 4/28/2017

what bring did you do here? let me answer you if you want to

5 response(s), 17 votes
kinkmeister9000 42 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Chatrooms - 4/27/2017

Has anyone ever set one up on here? Do you know how to do it? Thanks in advance for any responses.

4 response(s), 24 votes
Sirbob16 70 M
4 questions
Score 0.0
Would you be interested - 4/21/2017

Okay now I have been on here a bit and one common thing is all the fakes. Would you be interested in a place where all the scammers are listed? Example, hottotrot1978 is a man representing himself as a female. He even has pics to trade. I just think having a place to out them may help reduce the numbers. Thanks

8 response(s), 48 votes
Gskydive 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Newbie confusion - 4/20/2017

I'm sure this has been covered, but maybe someone can clue me in:

Why am I (a 58 year old male) getting views and hot listed by twenty-something year old hotties from other countries?

Also, I get emails from across the country -- what is the purpose? Scam or they want me to give them points or what?

Thanks.

9 response(s), 22 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
How to manae ladies who are doing fraud and interested to go on - 4/16/2017

Recently on social sites I got a number of ladies making contact and started with friendship. After getting acquainted within a couple of hours to couple of days they offered to plan out business deals on herbal seeds across the continents. They said I should act as local dealer, purchase sample packets from 1 to 3 and inform her company. Company will place orders and they with their purchase ...

14 response(s), 30 votes
Simplyalbertaman 71 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
OYHER SITES - 4/12/2017

Who on this site uses it as their primary site? Who uses this as their only site? and who has multiple sites and rarely visits here?

Also how would you rate this site?

14 response(s), 29 votes
femdomsrule 66 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Ball busting? - 4/9/2017

i can't take getting repeatedly kicked hard in the balls. It hurts like an MF, they get all swollen up and are painful for a long time. It feels like real damage. i don't know how some guys can manage to do it. Is this something i will ever get better at over time?

4 response(s), 12 votes
loosey2008 54 F
1 question
Score 0.0
How do I learn to override my gag reflex? - 3/30/2017

I really want to learn to take my Dom's cock into my throat. How do I learn how to do this?

27 response(s), 51 votes
curious_subNSC 70 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Men's underwear - 3/29/2017

This question is for the Ladies and Couples who play with men What kind of underwear do you like to see men in? Boxers Boxer briefs briefs tighty whitey mid rise low rise thong bikini g string panties commnado other.Please specify

6 response(s), 20 votes
popeyej45 72 C
10 questions
Score 0.0
how - 3/29/2017

As we have been paying members from the start, we don't really know what non paying members can do or not do. Can they reply to our messages?? If not, what is the point. Must we communicate only with other gold members??

7 response(s), 22 votes
juleslikesithard 58 F
1 question
Score 0.0
IM not working - 3/25/2017

Anyone else having issues with the IM? I am able to log in, but not receive or send messages.. sigh..

15 response(s), 35 votes