MyLoveandPet 55 C 6 questions Score 0.0	Helpful formating tips - 4/24/2019 This is not a question but, it is definitely advice. There are always new people complaining about the restrictions of being a free standard member and although, I believe you get what you pay for, I also know there are ways around most of them. So I have dredged up some long lost advice of a once great profile and am putting it out here again for the most recent batch of ... 4 response(s), 19 votes
tenderdom2 70 M 9 questions Score 0.0	bdsm.com - 4/24/2019 Is there any difference between these two sites? Is there any reason to belong to both? 4 response(s), 10 votes
obedicer 57 M 2 questions Score 0.0	BDSM Contracts, yes or no? - 4/22/2019 What are peoples views on BDSM Contracts when meeting a new partner? I find even with a sexual play scene as a one off, having some sort of agreed limits, preferences is useful. Particularly interested in the views of Sub females? 13 response(s), 50 votes
dommme111 35 F 1 question Score 0.0	Curiosity - 4/22/2019 Curious to know if there's any slave around worthy to serve me on a contract in person?... 2 response(s), 13 votes
shute1 53 M 3 questions Score 0.0	Is there anybody out there? - 4/20/2019 Just curious...I really haven't got out and tried to find a partner mainly because I'm tired of being let down..I cum in an out of here on the weekends, but I know I'll never find anyone here for me?right?? 8 response(s), 24 votes
looking4fat 72 T 9 questions Score 0.0	Testicle Torture: yea or nay? - 4/20/2019 A few weeks back, i participated in a discussion in one of the Groups titled; "Women Kicking Men in the Balls." It included some "gifs" taken from Porn Vids on the subject. And while the actions portrayed seemed painful, they were also (like almost all Porn) contrived. <br><br> The General Consensus of the Group was that Real Ball Kicking could/would be very ... 21 response(s), 37 votes
Truckee911000 62 M 1 question Score 0.0	Fakes and Scammers - 4/18/2019 Why doesn't Alt do more to eradicate fake profiles? Is there no sort of vetting process? 7 response(s), 25 votes
Come2playwithyoy 36 F 3 questions Score 0.0	Slave owned good or bad - 4/18/2019 A lot of Dom's want to Owen there slaves what do really Owen your body only or all you have to 4 response(s), 12 votes
98percentsub 52 M 2 questions Score 0.0	How best to detect fakes - 4/17/2019 I have written to a number of contacts on this site who purport to be this or that and waste valuable time before it finally becomes obvious they are total fakes. I would be interested to hear how some of you deal with this all too common problem. 32 response(s), 42 votes
pdiba123 26 F 1 question Score 0.0	i am sexy girl looking for a men - 4/16/2019 iam a sexy girl..you? 1 response(s), 1 vote
DeepInsideUrHead 43 M 8 questions Score 0.0	Why are there so many Fake submissives/slaves on Alt.com? - 4/10/2019 I have been involved in the Alt lifestyle for years. I had my first submissive when I was 18. At that point, I knew what it meant to be responsible for someone else. And also to be idolized and worshipped. I loved her more than life itself, and in turn, she trusted me with everything. <br> However, upon scanning profiles, and reading them carefully, and even communicating with ... 13 response(s), 28 votes
Come2playwithyoy 36 F 3 questions Score 0.0	Love my ass fucked - 4/7/2019 How do you ask your girl to fuck your ass 9 response(s), 27 votes
ABCGJMNN4WHTCOC 53 M 1 question Score 0.0	Collaring a slave m - 4/4/2019 As a new/novice M aster, How does one "collar " a slave?. 19 response(s), 35 votes
namgel 74 M 1 question Score 0.0	why do so many women want to watch their man being buggered? - 3/31/2019 It has been my experience that a large number of women want a mmf threesome, the main purpose of which, seems to be watching their man take it in the butt and they seem to want a good sized dick to do it. Do they want their man to be bi, to enjoy all sex, or are they trying to get even for the butt fucking they got, or could it be they just want the experience?. Several times in LA, while ... 7 response(s), 19 votes
bootlckboy39 51 M 2 questions Score 0.0	Comfortable Femdom vs kink - 3/27/2019 What makes you feel Femdom is comfortable vs just a closet kink? <br><br> Some say it is how you handle in public while other how the day to day goes. 9 response(s), 33 votes
bigmac01 68 M 2 questions Score 0.0	Having trouble with "banned text" in erotic stories - 3/27/2019 I have not been able to post a single story in "erotic stories", as every time I do I get an error message saying "Contains Banned Text", and it won't post. I keep making the scene blander and blander, and it still returns the message. Are words like "the" and "and" verboten here? I can only imagine what non-erotic stories must be like. <br> Has anyone had this problem, or does ... 7 response(s), 8 votes
yourMistressD 64 F 1 question Score 0.0	What does a wink mean? - 3/25/2019 Is it an invitation to talk, but you aren't sure what to say? When it is from a submissive to a master/mistress I tend to think it's a "I would love to talk but it's not my place" but am not sure. <br> Is it I saw what you did and enjoyed what you wrote but really have nothing to say? <br> Is there a protocol, or a suggested one, because I'm new here and if there is ... 17 response(s), 22 votes
Tari197 52 F 24 questions Score 0.0	Petition - 3/25/2019 I know a lot of us here have been having problems with disappearing articles or questions. Do you think it would be helpful to start a petition here online to really get them to address/fix the problem? 6 response(s), 10 votes
_Tomcat_ 68 M 2 questions Score 0.0	Email Censorship - 3/24/2019 I understand why Alt is and should be concerned about email abuse, commercial baiting, and solicitation on it's web sites. <br> I do not, however, appreciate getting CENSORED ! This happened to me, for the first time, today, and I'm made as hell. <br> I left AAF, in part, because of the phony members who haunted that chat sites, dumped their adds, and although they ... 1 response(s), 2 votes
scottmop 54 M 7 questions Score 0.0	PAIN IS GAIN?? - 3/24/2019 IVE TALKED TO SOMEONE ON HERE WHO LOVE RECEIVEING PAIN. TURNS ME ON AS WELL. WHAT ARE OTHERS THOUGHTS ON THIS TOPIC 10 response(s), 1 vote
slave10162 67 M 1 question Score 0.0	I like your opinion for my first time being a master role - 3/24/2019 Johns master #1 March 2019 <br><br> She addresses me as Master or Master John She cannot speak unless spoken permission Or she gets a paddle on her but or string around Her nipples with a clothes pin. <br><br> 1 stand in the middle of family room take off your clothes touching your Breasts Pussy turn around, lean forward, spread your legs Take both ... 13 response(s), 26 votes
solelicker1213 71 M 1 question Score 0.0	Re-kindling very old friendships - 3/20/2019 I've been thinking about contacting an acquaintance from a log time ago. She and I were pretty hot for one another, but life got in the way. I know no one knows the particular situation but do you think I should contact and express some new found kinks for fun? 11 response(s), 14 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M 11 questions Score 0.0	Kinkiest of all? - 3/20/2019 Who are the kinkiest people of all ? I'll keep it just in the US but feel free to tell of others Are they on the East coast or the West Coast? More so the South or North of country? Did you notice they are even kinkier and pervier in the Midwest.. or in New England .. or in La La Land ? A lot said it all depends on the warmer weather, social and financial conditions etc etc... What say you ? 6 response(s), 23 votes
tenderdom2 70 M 9 questions Score 0.0	E mails - 3/20/2019 Recently the incidence of gorgeous girls with a year or so of membership mailing me in ALT has risen markedly. That would be nice but they have a common practice of demanding my email address before we have a serious conversation. I believe they are scammers who want to send me a nasty link and I send them on their way. Anyone have any experience with these types? Am I being overcautious? 13 response(s), 27 votes
maturejj 66 F 1 question Score 0.0	BBC - 3/20/2019 Are there really NO Big Black, Indian or Asian cocks that want to fuck the arse off me. I have tried to find one and none seem brave enough. There are more black sheep here in Wales than there are big cocks, why? 26 response(s), 70 votes
Sadomass 54 M 1 question Score 0.0	So does anyone follow the Old Guard ways anymore? - 3/20/2019 I came up in the lifestyle decades ago trained by an Old Guard Domme. I'm a firm believer in not asking anything of a sub I haven't experienced myself. How do you all feel about this? 5 response(s), 21 votes
TheQuietOneInPgh 67 M 1 question Score 0.0	Gags vs Safe Words - 3/14/2019 What are some practical alternatives to safe words, when the sub is gagged or hooded? 15 response(s), 6 votes
MistresMarquesa 62 F 1 question Score 0.0	This IS A BDSM Site,Right. - 3/14/2019 I think many members (mainly newer ones) have forgotten, This IS A BDSM Site. And most of Us here are searching for like minded. I'm sure many of Us have, and are running acoss these. Mistress M 8 response(s), 12 votes
Switchy 64 F 1 question Score 0.0	Why not allowed URL and book titles to be posted in chat rooms? Especially "The Newbie Room"? - 3/7/2019 1-Why does alt ban folks for trying to help others when they post a URL or book title regarding BDSM Education? <br> 1-Why bother having a "The Newbie Room For beginners to the ALT lifestyle who would like help/advice. Be gentle." if you can't help people by pointing them at multiple web sites for them to learn? <br> It's not advertising if they are pointing you to web ... 3 response(s), 0 votes
Come2playwithyoy 36 F 3 questions Score 0.0	Mistress - 3/4/2019 I am looking for a mistress and all I get is people that want money. How do I find a mistress to be used by. 8 response(s), 22 votes