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how to get out without being rude. 12/15/2004
i recentley met this guy online and before we met he seemed
really cool. he looked attractive to me and he was well hung
and said he was a total top wich i really like. but when i got
to his place he was totally not what he said he was then i was
really dissapointed, but i didnt really know what to say.
i ended up leaving without doing anything with him but he
said that i was a tease and ...
2 Comments,
410 Views,
18 Votes
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saying not interested 12/8/2004
even if you email someone or they email you, it would be polite
in just saying no thanks or not my type, I have found that
people have a tendency to get really rude if you don't
respond either way. so I make it a point to reply whether
to say no thanks or not my type, just my viewpoint
4 Comments,
93 Views,
20 Votes
,3.51 Score
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WHy do people "phish" 12/7/2004
Why is it that people will send a "email" with
a different addy to respond back to. And then have links
to "paid" sites in order to reply. At other sites.?
To me it gets old. Am I the Lone Ranger or what?
1 Comments,
102 Views,
9 Votes
,3.64 Score
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Cougars 12/5/2004
I don't know about you, but I have trouble with Cougars.
They are constantly prowling around me, its not that I'm
overly against fooling around with older women, its when
they say "you know I have a your age" that
doesn't do it for me.
<br>
Why is it the Cougars are far more forward then the rest?
6 Comments,
226 Views,
16 Votes
,2.10 Score
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One of the obstacles I've run into with my own bi-curiosity... 12/2/2004
I used to get whipped every now and then by a master (who will
remain nameless here), he knew I was bi-curious, but he
also knew that the mutual agreement between US was he was
master and he whipped me. Before we did anything, we discussed
a bit about what was acceptable between us. I already have
a mistress and I'm HER slave, and every now and then
she liked to send me to him for a proper ...
1 Comments,
171 Views,
14 Votes
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Time to be polite. 11/16/2004
I believe that any well mannered person has the time to be
polite. Of course standard members are restricted to the
number of emails they can answer. I understand that. Anyone
who writes me gets a reply even if it is no thank you. I appreciate
that people here are reaching out to people they feel may
be kindred spirits. Take heart my fellow rejectees. Somebody's
looking for somebody like ...
2 Comments,
94 Views,
30 Votes
,6.18 Score
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Sometimes it's just not worth it! 11/15/2004
I used to take the time to say no politely and it usualy ends
up in the other person getting hostile over being rejected.
If someone is across the country or IN another country I
don't see the point of answering. It's silly to
me and I don't have the time to be honest. Don't
take it personally! Just my 2 cents..
1 Comments,
145 Views,
32 Votes
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how could you? 11/9/2004
this one would like to take a moment or two to speak her feelings
on the word No and what it means girl was always taught that
no matter your relation no matter your situation one always
has the right to say No or has a safe word then when used is
supposed to stop the present activity from happening but
it seems to this girl that sometimes ...
1 Comments,
97 Views,
17 Votes
,2.70 Score
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How lovely we are not meant for each other 10/31/2004
WEll well well,
of late i have had some pleasant experiences with saying
no thanks. In a couple of letters i responded with...'i
think You got the wrong idea about what i am looking for,
but thanks for writing' or ' i am afraid that that
is really not something i am interested in' or even
'now i know all about You, You have not even said why
You wrote me, i do not think there is any hope ...
0 Comments,
132 Views,
17 Votes
,5.11 Score
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how to say no. 10/30/2004
How do you say no to a person you dont even know? Well the truth
is you might be missing on a great guy or girl and most people
say no pretty quickly if the person standing infront of
them is not a gq or perfect ten model. Oh well get over it,
we are all sometime or another plastic, no matter what we
look like or are like we are only human. If you dont like the
person and dont have the ...
0 Comments,
37 Views,
12 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Please Read Profile Before Sending An Email 10/26/2004
I have recieved emails from individuals who have in all
likelihood not taken the time to read my profile. If they
had they wouldn't have put forth the effort to send
me an email as my location and what I am seeking here differs
from their own. I typically don't respond to these
emails, not out of a lack of common courtesy but because
it's clear that they either didn't read my profile,
or ...
5 Comments,
96 Views,
37 Votes
,5.95 Score
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Responding to e-mails 10/24/2004
I have seen frequent postings on alt about people who don't
answer e-mail. I myself have a system. In my profile I clearly
state that I won't relocate, want nothing to do with
attached partners and am not into sadists. Despite this
I get e-mail from these individuals which I typically don't
answer. Nor should I be expected to, if the individual sending
it has read my profile then they know ...
1 Comments,
91 Views,
20 Votes
,6.70 Score
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You'd have to be crazy. 10/12/2004
How many times has a hot woman in a tight red dress approached
you, brushed her blond bangs out of her blue eyes, curled
her pouty lips up and asked you: do you come here often? Do
you want to?
<br>
Now if this were to happen... would you turn her down? We
all know that if you are a man, and you know that this blonde
is not a man.... the answer is Huh NOOOO>
<br>
...
0 Comments,
73 Views,
9 Votes
,0.86 Score
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG… 9/23/2004
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Comments,
94 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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Why can't they just say it???? 9/23/2004
with a few girls that i have been with later i found out they
just wanted to be friends. But they started it???? This
not makes me feel bad but it also makes me wonder what i do
to make them think that is the only way to be my friend? I think
that is why i like it here. Don't have to worry weather
you want to be my frined or not, just if you want to get it on,
if a friendship happens out of ...
0 Comments,
31 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Why can't they just say it???? 9/23/2004
with a few girls that i have been with later i found out they
just wanted to be friends. But they started it???? This
not makes me feel bad but it also makes me wonder what i do
to make them think that is the only way to be my friend? I think
that is why i like it here. Don't have to worry weather
you want to be my frined or not, just if you want to get it on,
if a friendship happens out of ...
0 Comments,
60 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG… 9/23/2004
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Comments,
135 Views,
20 Votes
,6.44 Score
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Submission brings a great deal of problems with being assertive 9/8/2004
I am a new submissive femme and getting more than my fair
share of responses. the trouble is that i am happy to messege
the Doms and i am not wasting time, i really do want to meet
up with some of them, but some of them try to really pressurise
me into a meeting the first time we talk and i find it very
difficult to say no. Sometimes they want things that i am
not ready for and sometimes ...
1 Comments,
83 Views,
16 Votes
,6.21 Score
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Reply to Hurting Feelings 8/31/2004
I too have seen much of this. When sent an e-mail no matter
if I am interested or not, I write back cordially thanking
them but respectfully declining. Why is it then these socalled
"Dominants" come back with acidy remarks and
hissing insults? One word: Immaturity. They've never
truly grown up. Either within the lifestyle or outside
of it. Same can be said for women however.
...
1 Comments,
84 Views,
36 Votes
,8.07 Score
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RE: Why do people find they have to lie ?? 8/30/2004
I had this happen to me just recently. A female submissive
was gung ho about being my sub. She was into kinky stuff that
I was into to. But she couldn’t express these feelings with
her husband (red flag #1). When it came down to meeting,
she didn’t want to give her number (red flag # 2) because
she says her husband is a snoop. To make a long story short,
she was a no-show and when ...
0 Comments,
61 Views,
19 Votes
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got to be honest ya site is losing ground unless there more open hearts 8/29/2004
it not going to open hearts unless it beautiful i sorry i
lost not gonna come back unless human understand thier
own heart
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18 Votes
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Reply to Don't Bend Over 8/20/2004
Dear Tex944
<br>
I think you're article was better suited for the "jokes"
section of the magazine.
<br>
No true Master would ever speak so foolishly to His slave.
Maybe a young guy to his girlfriend, but not a Master to His
slave.
<br>
After reading some of your other articles and your profile,
I've come to the conclusion, you are a young guy, ...
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14 Votes
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An amendment to "Hurting Feelings" 8/6/2004
in my previous article i expressed how some people are rude
and hurtful to others and i said that some Doms dont realize
they are hurting feelings, i had meant to say that both Doms
and subs/slaves can be hurtful. i apologize to everyone.
subs can also be known to write back and be hurtful at times,
it is not JUST the Dom/Dommes that do. please accept my humble
apologies for the oversight ...
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11 Votes
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Hurting Feelings 8/2/2004
sometimes a person will be disinterested in another and
write back and be very hurtful. this is tasteless and tactless.
if you do not like how someone looks or are just disinterested
please just say no thank you. do not be rude. people have
feelings, sometimes Doms do not realize that their words
may hurt someoens feelings. but they do. its good to remember
that everyone has feelings. a lot ...
0 Comments,
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23 Votes
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Don't bend over 8/1/2004
I often had my slave complain when i give it to there in the
ass, i hvae the answer just told her not ot bend over then!
2 Comments,
104 Views,
26 Votes
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How to say "No!" It's easy! 7/11/2004
You say, "no thanks, I'm not interested."
<br>
If you have already met someone, or been chatting with them,
you may take a more polite route and say, "I don't
think we're a good fit/match/pair, etc"
<br>
If the person presses you for details (and this will rarely
happen, unless you've been a big jerk and/or had some
form of relationship with them up to that point), ...
0 Comments,
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63 Votes
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No thank you is sometimes redundant.... 7/8/2004
If you have specified that there is a certain sort of person
with whom you desire no contact-not even an introductory
e-mail, then why on earth would you be obligated under some
sort of un-written submissive credo to reply to every cretin
who either didn't read, or didn't care about what
you had written in your profile. The profile is a guideline,
a wish-list and a tool; someone ignoring ...
0 Comments,
33 Views,
19 Votes
,6.42 Score
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 1 - Toys 7/4/2004
My wife & I tie one another up occaionally and when it
happens the other knows it is no holds bar, meaning they
can do whatever they want to do. It was the only way we could
do the things "we" wanted even if the other was
not gung ho. For example, my wife was not so much into toys,
so I tie her up and play and play and play. She gets into into
eventually but the beginning is slow. She ...
0 Comments,
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23 Votes
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 2 - Toys 7/4/2004
The next time I tied my wife up she was on her stomach and I
licked her pussy clean, fingering the heck out of her. I
had 3 fingers in her pounding her pussy as deep and hard as
I could. I licked her anus ans she freaked out, then I did
it again, same reaction, then I just buried my tongue in
her tight forbidden litle hole and tongue ****ed the heck
out of her. She involuntarily spread ...
0 Comments,
66 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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No Thanks to Toys, Anal, Bi-Sex, and more. Section 3 - Anal 7/4/2004
So only when I tie my wife up am I able to do wild and kinky things.
So I tied her up again, she hadnt let me do her anally but one
time until I force her to tied up. I tongue her out anally
forcing her to suck me till I am leaking cum all over. After
making her drink some of it I then toy around her anus with
the head of my penis leaking cum all over it. She loves the
feel of my penis ...
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84 Views,
11 Votes
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