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This is Part II of my life Story with how i became a slave 8/17/2005
First i send the warmest of my hug's to males or females
Dominate or submissive with the hope it light your path
and help you find not only what you search for but what your
heart searchs for as well to those who where kind enough
to take the time and read part one of how i became a slave.
i would really like to thank those of you who took the time
to vote as it is only because of this i am ...
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how do you do it? 8/14/2005
i need to find out how to build up a sucsessful sub/dom relationship!
its so annoying all i want to do it to b abused and used in so
many ways and its justnot happening:'( how do you do
it? please tell me........:'(
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For me it started Very Early in my life with a childhood friend 8/10/2005
i guess all relationships start at some point or another
but mine started if i am really to think about it around 9
or 10 years old with my childhood playmate who late became
my girl friend and then my Mistress and then my Wife.
So i guess we will start at the beginning and if you folks
want to hear more let me know and i will continue (but understand
i have changed names and places as ...
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what is happening ? 8/9/2005
As I am very new at the internet and new to Alt, I am having
trouble understanding my feelings..I have been single
no sex for a while, I am finding myself really caught up
in this life.thats what I am here for, but really talking
deep.its all I think about..since I joined, just a question
I would like others thoughts on is it easy to get caught up
in the new excietment of this life style ...
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Finding the right one, but they leave you just before!!! 8/6/2005
I have noticed a lot on these websites that a person can find
a good match, but when it comes time to meet, they lose all
confidence and leave without a word or tell you that you
are unworthy of their time. I'm extremely careful
with what I show and do online, and also really look into
a person to make sure they are safe as well. But you get past
this point and however long it had taken ...
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what to do 8/4/2005
i found someone who lives far away. Should I move away?
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Big surprise 7/29/2005
It all started at this party. We were all playing truth or
dare; we were all having the time of our life. Now my friends
all new that I’m straight and I have never backed down from
a dare before. Any ways I was dared to suck on this girl’s
breast and of course I did. After that I was a little hard
then the girl I had just been sucking on dared the man right
next to me to give the guy ...
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The New Variety of Love and Relationship 7/11/2005
From ‘bed buddies’ to ‘polyamory’ I takes a look at the changing
face of relationship in the 21st century.
The rules of attraction have always been very simple; there
are no rules. You can look for sex through love, love through
sex, neither, either/or – and still end up miserable, frustrated
or heartbroken. So, in fact it wasn’t surprising to find
that ‘Where is the ...
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across the ocean 7/8/2005
I've made a rather special friend who wants me to vist
her in the philipines some day. Nothing abnormal about
it, but she wants to do that. What's your take on it?
Is it a bad idea to go to a country on vacation as a request?
I think it'd be nice to go and all, but it seems like a
lot to do for a friend.
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Looking for a good relationship 7/1/2005
Forgive my insertion of opinion here but, .... so many people
here have voiced disappointment with the failings of a
relationship and maintaing it... so .. here's what
i think.
What many seek is M/s (Master/slave or Master/submissive)
not D/s as strictly defined.Yes, sadly it is true. Most
toppy type dominants are just bossy people who get off getting
their own way in what is typically a ...
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truth and nothing but the truth 6/23/2005
From life experience I can tell you that lies breed hate
and mistrust so if anyone wants a relationship or marriage
to last truth and nothing but the truth no matter what lie
to me good-bye, tell me the truth and we will get by
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Training by Rob Hart 6/22/2005
"I want to be trained."
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These are delightful words to hear. They show desire; they
promise fun; and they speak of trust. But what does it mean
to train a submissive? It is far more than instructing a
submissive on the expectations of a particular Dominant,
or making her a good "generic slave" (there
being no such thing). It is also never a one-way flow of information
or ...
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Long Distance Relationships 5/31/2005
Being in a long distance relationship, takes two people
that believe in trust. When I speak of trust, it must engulf
your entire relationship. Every day I send an email and
talk on the phone with my loved one. Sometimes I feel so good
after hearing him and other times my heart aches more not
having him with me. We never take our love for granted each
time we spend together we jam a month ...
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Several signs of poor doming 5/22/2005
So, I am a sub and proud of that. I have several tips for other
subs in separating the real Dom from the posers.
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1. The Dom meets and greets you one time with no intention
of playing.
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2. You agree to safe sane limits
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3. You understand and agree to what you can provide from
the ...
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Friend wants bi...... 5/14/2005
I know this 24 year old girl who has some very strong bi-sexual
pull. She luvs to masterbate watching girls go down on each
other. Needs guidance but motivated. I would like to surprise
her as a gift. I am not involved with her (5 yrs ago)- so you
believe me when I would listen to her talk about girls and
going down fantasies. I have some vid of her getting off
to femonfem porn--HOT! ...
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Problems with Mom..getting better 4/28/2005
When I met my bodyfiend It was the first time I had met someone
from ALT. I told my parents I was going out to a friends for
a couple of hours. I wasnt sure how they would react to my
telling them "Hey MOM! Going to met some strange guy
and have sex! Be home by 12! Bye!" I was only 19 and new
to the world of BDSM. I figured my parents would rant and
rave and call the police. But My ...
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How to explain subspace to another? 4/22/2005
In the begining the concept of subspace bewildered me,
indeed verbally defining the concept was near impossible.
It was almost like some secret club, everyone but me "got
it". Books talked of it, but were vague in ways that
books for a thirteen year old are when talking about kissing.
People spoke of it as if they were all speaking of going someplace
that all subs get to go... a sub heaven ...
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I'm not an expert ... 4/2/2005
I don't really have a good track record ... it seems
I trust those whom I shouldn't trust. I am very dominant,
but I'm also sensitive and romantic. I have few limits
sexually, but the ones I do have are very hard limits. One
is trust. And in expecting trustworthiness, I also give
it. I didn't come to BDSM, M/s, and D/s to see how many
women I can conquer. One woman ... the right woman ...
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Are feelings ruled by "old genes" ? 3/29/2005
Is the fact that humans, genetically, are animals...
- still causing troubles for us, in building a relationship,
in modern times ?
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Is it so that many of the reactions we have, comes from an
almost pre-historic instinct, and/or are genetically
“decided” or “programmed”
within us...
- often without any of us understanding that this is what
causes our ...
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When feelings does not grow at same speed... 3/28/2005
Is it unusual that feelings does not come/grow at same speed
in a BDSM-relationship ?
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And is it so that it maybe comes faster/stronger from the
submissive part, because of the need to involve feelings
to be able to give him/her self to a dominant ?
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I have experienced this some times during my life; as submissive,
I NEED to have feelings for the one I do give ...
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It takes time 3/28/2005
To build a relationship takes time in a "vanilla"
relationship...
- and maybe even more time in a BDSM-relationship, because
there is even more elements that shall "fit".
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I think it is importante to get to know (im my situation)
the man, before I get to know the Master.
No matter how strict you are planning to live the relationship,
you are both humans, both peoples, ...
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The Bee Versus The Flower 3/24/2005
Still new to being a submissive, I am always looking for
ways to understand my relationship to my Dom. While He is
completely in charge outwardly, I feel at sometimes I am
in charge inwardly. Not a powerful 'in charge, '
just a knowing within that I do have somewhat control of
what I do and do not give. He knows that to receive unwillingly
is both a waste of time and energy.
My Dom, ...
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Thank You Alt.com, For The Love Of My Life!! 3/23/2005
Greetings, My name is Ginger And I am 20 years old. For the
last two years I have been waiting with fingers crossed
for "Mr. Right." Well on the night of May 23rd
2004 I got a loving letter from a strange man. The title,
"You could have it all, My Empire of Dirt." Being
a strong fan of Music by Nine Inch Nails this gave me pause.
I opened the letter and It was from a man I would learn to ...
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Body, Mind and Soul ... are you really out there? 3/21/2005
It is interesting to me that though we are all here on Alt.com
to seek that which is beyond what most in general society
call "the Norm", in many ways, we seek what our
vanilla friends seek, as well. We just choose to look for
the edges and in some cases the extremes in expressing our
feelings with one another. Most vanilla people want someone
who cares about them; they want someone with ...
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IS THERE ANYTHING WORSE THAN NO SHOWS? 3/19/2005
Hi friends, I'm back and want to address this issue..NO
SHOWS. Is there anything worse? I suppose there is, I've
just found that every member I ever met personallly, was
at the least, part of who they said they were..lol/
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But no shows, that is the bottom of the food chain, utter
disrespect and real callousness that enflames a person's
emotions and hurts frankly.
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Usually the next day 3/13/2005
I will never forget my first real girlfriend in high school,
after
I spent most of the night thinking she was asleep with my
face in her panty covered ass, and sucking her asshole.The
next morning forever changed me, I realized I do have a
female counterpart, that is a girl who is into recieving
oral sex only and lots of assworship.U see she woke me up
by sitting on my face, telling ...
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Adult Nursing 3/10/2005
My very first experience with adult nursing happpened
quite by mistake. I had, had a miscarriage so my breast were
leaking. the person I was dating came over to see how I was
feeling. I mentioned to him that my breast were milking
and he said that he had always wanted to try that. I removed
one of my breast and allowed him to suckle ( I've always
had a thing for having them sucked). It ...
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What about smokers? 3/7/2005
Why is it that the everyday smoker does not have his/her
option of discretely acknowledging that they have a hidden
pleasure that is a lifestyle in it self? I have not heard
a valid reason why it should not be considered a lifestyle
choice and given the ability to know whether or not someone
will match them more completely. Is there any hope of change?......
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The Prime Directive 3/6/2005
In my trainings, I was given several unshakable rules.
The first was the “Prime Directive”. (Yes, I suppose it
is an amusing co-incidence that it is a phrase akin to the
Starfleet core value, but as we know, so many perverts are
geeks…!)
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The prime directive in my D/s relationships is this:
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“The (submissive / slave) has the duty to protect the (dominant ...
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Baby Do you have A Hard Limit? 3/1/2005
Ok Ok, so it's a bad start to an important subject but
hey, I'm a lecturer and a Dom. What do you expect? lol
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Seriously though, you need to have thought out a "Hard
Limit" list, i.e. a list of things that you simply
do not wish to participate in. It's not all that difficult
to write, and for your own sake and the sake of your Dom/me
you should have it. Remember - anything ...
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