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There is a personality that wants wicked things done to them AND never wants to admit it; The act of admitting it ruins the decadence of the event.. Yet, how do you silently inform the Domme to do it? Catch 22 .. Hopefully, the admission of your slutty nature is enough to get the partner to use the event itself to explore what is and is not "off limits" .. But as you know, I am clueless how to read a woman, LOL..
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I think it depends on the couple and what they like/ find appropriate. If you're a slave then you probably wouldn't be allowed to top from the bottom at all but for example when I was a sub to my lover he appreciated my input to an extent that some people could have seen it as topping from the bottom but we were happy with how things were. I do think communication is paramount though and the dominant needs to find out what their partner is into, discover limits and all.
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I think it all starts with the discussion on limits......it's not topping from the bottom, it's sharing with your potential Dom/Domme that which turns on both parties.
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8/24/2017 4:18 am |
No offense but I'm gonna disagree with you for a moment. Bdsm is not a one way street..it isn't just what the Dominant person wants period ( if that was the case then why do submissives even bother to write profiles/list likes or what they are into). I disagree that submissives are just sheep and should just be happy following someone blindly. That all they should want is to simply obey I see bdsm as a two person partnership...your yin infusing their yang...you push and they pull. I believe dominants want to know your lifestyle interest because they want to know you as a person/want to know what makes you unique/ it helps them understand you better And let's be honest...people tend to gravitate to people of the same interest...sure a Dominant could chose me and spank my ass silly, but isn't it more enjoyable to get a submissive they really reacts to/really enjoys/really gets off on a spanking. I guess it would be like talking about GOT to me.. sure I'd sit there and listen ,,but you wouldn't get a response out of me ( I've watched like 10 minutes of the series period). Then try talking about the series to someone that really enjoys it...there is a huge different in that person's reaction. Sure all all could just put up a pic and a slave name...and then hell it really wouldn't matter which Dominant we hooked up with ... But there is a reason we try to connect with each other
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No matter what we say or do it comes down to your Dom knowing that what he does he does it not with the intent to harm but to enhance your pleasure. And tho there is a very thin line between harm an pleasure, lets hope the sub the has expressed that boundery to their Dom/DOmme
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8/24/2017 7:57 am |
I want to know what your limits are , Then I work from there.
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This topic is fascinating me again...seems to go in cycles.  vloree has a post similar to this one...I intend to probe her - if she's game. Loving this. And I have my ideas about topping from the bottom, and what if anything to do about it. Intriguing post hnh BD~ P Doc_Sonar I advocate Simplicity, Patience & Compassion...to the extent that doing so won't threaten or harm My boundaries or Me. ~ Doc_Sonar Breathe Deeply~ Peace
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